| Location | Urmston |
| Age | 37 years |
| Date of Birth | 8/1963 |
| Date of Death | 4/2001 |
| Visitors | 778 since 18/01/2007 |
| Creator |
after much heartache in his private life ian could no longer take the pain he was in , Ian died of a broken heart, thanks to all the people who made his life a misery, its to late now,rest in piece ian the fights over, see you in heaven.
u no how i feel every day coz i sit and tell u all the tym,because i no u can hear me.i feel how u did all the time ,alone,but now i no u can relax an start a new life in the heavens above.life gets harder an harder an i think 2 myself wot u wud say 2 me if u were here.u r my dad but u were taken from me, an now ur my guardian angel 2, i no ur wiv me all the tym,coz u no i need you.seven years gone an it feels jus like yesterday,ur voice and picture still stays in my head,so that means i always see an hear ya.we always had r disagreements but i wud do anyfin 2 have them back.u no i luv u mur than my own life id do absolutely anyfin 2 jus hug an kiss and tell u i luv ya face 2 face.i never use 2 tell ya i luved ya wen u were here, an now i carnt stop sayin it.i wish u wud of bin here 2 bring ur granson up wiv me,i really wud of wanted him 2 no u,but he will anyway coz i will tell him wot a loving dad u r.ur the only one that really no's my pain an how i feel.i hurt so bad 2 no u were in 2 much pain u didnt want 2 breathe anymur.i use 2 say u were selfish 4 givin up an leaving me,but now im older i understand abit better.sometimes i wish i was older,coz then i wud of been wiser 2 wot was happening around me, an mayb i cud of made u feel different about life,i didnt have a clue that things weren't ok i was only 13 an was naive.i will luv u till the day i die ur my best friend, luv u dad.luv mel.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
my brother
you and I understood each other so much, you were there for me and I was there for you.
But when you needed me the most there was nothing I could do. you talked to me all the time. A few weeks before I saw a change, I knew then that something was not right I tried to talk to you and you said everything was ok. I knew it wasnt.
I now know you had already made your mind up. I understand that if you could nt have what you wanted you wanted nothing at all.
what you did nt realise is that we all wanted you. I needed you, and I still do and will need you till we meet again.
I saw you at your happiest and I saw you when you were most vunerable. I saw you when you left the world and the last beat of your broken heart.
I think of that day every day and even now after nearly seven years I still cry. you may not be here in body but your spirit is certainly all around.
Take care of Grandma and Uncle Billy, I am sure the pair of you are having a bloody good laugh at us lot you always were a pair of wind up merchants
I hope you are now at peace and will miss and love you forever
Jacquie xxxxxx
a letter from heaven...this poem was sent to me when my son took his own life it gave me so much comfort, I hope it does for you
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
~Author~
Ruth Ann Mahaffey
This was sent to me for my son, I hope it comforts you too!!
When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today,
while thinking of the many things we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me, as much as I love you,
and each time you think of me I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,
that an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand,
and said my place was ready in heaven far above,
and that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,
for all life, I'd always thought I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for and so much yet to do,
it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday, I thought, just for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized that this could never be,
for emptiness and memories would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things that I'd miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity and all I've promised you".
Today for life on earth is past but here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last,
and since each day's the same day, there's no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful, so trusting, and so true.
Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn't do.
But now at last you are free.
So won't you take my hand and share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me, I'm right here in your heart.
So sorry for your loss.
such a sad thing to happen to a young man.
He is in a better place now where no one can hurt him anymore.
Be at peace with the angels Ian.
R.I.P Ian.
Ian
rest in peice mate she wasnt worth it i hope your pain has gone sleep tight, thanks for looking after me when i was a single parent, for all the work you gave me, have a drink with pete and ant, cant wait to see you againxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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